Start early with a determination to get AT LEAST on item on your list accomplished. One item is a positive day. Build from there. If one focuses on the big mound of shit to be done it is depressing and a deterrent. But if you plan on just one item it feels good. Then sometimes you go for two.
― My father’s advice for a day off that makes you feel good about yourself instead of like a lazy piece of shit.
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This is how you lose her.

You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, the scent of new books in the store, the surprise short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely.

You must remember when she forgets.

You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: your use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, because she pays attention.

She remembers when you forget.

You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. She wants to feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay. When you make her feel inadequate. She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.

You must learn her.

You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.

You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.

And, this is how you keep her.

Junot Diaz, This is How You Lose Her (via golden-notes)

like ngl the book hit me really hard

(via -osito)
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spiderbears:

moshingice:

you ever wanna fuck the living shit outta somebody but also cook for them and make sure they’re emotionally stable?

Yee

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Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel.
― King Solomon (via spiritual-shanti)
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alovealive:

"The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for.  And the most you can do is live inside that hope.  Not admire it from a distance, but live right in it, under its roof."

— Barbara Kingsolver, Animal Dreams

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I just realized….

If i don’t trust the government, why would i trust Major League Baseball?

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nothing will ruin your 20’s more than thinking you should have your life together already.
― I need to write this on every wall of my room. (via thisyearsgirls)

(Source: cokeinaglassbottle)

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furything:

can you believe that there are legal nipples and illegal nipples

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malcolmsex:

I can’t sleep, so why not get drunk

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My throat it still tastes like house fire and salt water
I wear this tide like loose skin, come on and rock me to sea
If we hold on tight we’ll hold each other together
And not just be some fools rushin’ to die in our sleep
While these machines will rust, I promise, but we’ll still be electric
Shockin’ each other back to life
Your hand in mine
My fingers and your veins connected
Our bones grown together in time
Our hands entwine and my fingers and your veins connect
And our spines grown stronger inside
‘Cause I know that our church is all made out of shipwrecks
From every hull these rocks have claimed
But we pick ourselves up, try and grow better with this change
So come on and let’s wash each other with tears of joy and tears of grief
And fold our lives like crashing waves and run upon this beach
Come on and sew us together, we’re just some tattered rags stained forever
We only have what we remember
― Listener
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